My husband told me it doesn’t feel like we’re friends. No it wouldn’t feel like we’re friends matt, cause you don’t treat me like that, You are always pushing me away, you never make time for me. We never do anything fun together. We don’t talk about anything other than your job, because you always want to be alone, and when You dont want to be alone, you dont want to be alone with me, so no, why would it feel like we’re friends.
"Be stubborn about your goals, but flexible about your methods."
can calm itself,
so can you.